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Chris Hart

Is your marriage on autopilot? Time to grab the controls!

By Chris Hart   2026-01-06 09:04:33

I worry sometimes that my marriage isn’t as secure as I’d like. Why might I be feeling like this? And is there anything I can do to feel better?

Everyone wants success, so why do so few actually get it?

By Chris Hart   2026-01-07 10:43:08

I’m just starting college, and I find myself wondering which of us will succeed in life. What is it that separates the winners from the losers?

Is it me, or is everyone I date allergic to commitment?

By Chris Hart   2026-01-10 10:06:06

I date lots of exciting new guys, but sooner or later, they all let me down. Why’s that, and what am I doing wrong?

Could my bad habits be the reason I'm not getting any action?

By Chris Hart   2026-01-13 09:40:22

These days, my boyfriend and I aren’t having nearly enough sex together! And I’m forever tired and irritable. Are those things connected? And if they are, what should I be doing about them?

How do we move from 'roommates' to 'lovers' without it feeling forced?

By Chris Hart   2026-01-20 10:07:50

My husband and I used to have a special language of our own, but somehow that has disappeared, along with our intimacy. How can we get close like that again?

Can I have a secret life and still have a successful marriage?

By Chris Hart   2026-01-21 07:00:00

I used to tell my husband everything, but lately feel the need to keep some things to myself. Aren’t spouses supposed to be open with each other? So why do I want to keep some things private? 

How do I fast-track my love life without making a desperate mistake?

By Chris Hart   2026-01-24 10:00:00

I’m well educated, good at my job, and would also love to get married and start a family. But I’m in my late 30s already and not good at meeting men! Will it ever happen for me? 

Is my boyfriend a future husband, or just a bachelor in disguise?

By Chris Hart   2026-01-27 09:41:37

I’m well-educated, skilled in my job, and would also love to get married and start a family. But I’m in my late 30s already, and I'm not very good at meeting men! Will it ever happen for me? 

Is it normal to mourn a person who wasn't right for you?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-03 10:01:58

I’ve just left a very bad relationship and can’t help thinking I should feel relieved. But instead, I’m experiencing emotions like anger, sadness, hurt and loneliness. Will it ever end?

Help! My husband is still a mama's boy, is there hope for our marriage?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-04 11:00:12

I love my husband, but somehow he seems to need to consult his mother over every decision in our home. I’ve tried talking to him about it, but nothing changes. What should I do?

Why does wanting more make me difficult?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-07 10:00:28

My boyfriend says that I’m difficult to handle, and that I’m always complaining and always nagging. I don’t think that’s true, of course, but why might he think that? And how should I respond?

He's perfect except for his ex! Should I walk away?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-11 09:47:15

I’m dating a really promising boyfriend, but he has an ex who seems to be a big part of his life, and she’s creeping me out. Should I let him go, even though he’s so nice?

When did Valentine's Day become a spending contest?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-14 12:24:25

Most of my female friends are getting hysterical about how much their men are going to spend on them on St Valentine’s night. What happened to just enjoying each other’s company?

Will this baby bring us together or push him away?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-21 08:32:21

I recently discovered that I’m pregnant and my boyfriend doesn’t seem to want to know! I don’t want to be a single mother, so how can I get him to up his game?

Why do I always fall for men who break my heart?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-24 09:44:41

I seem to have developed quite a gift for attracting men who sooner or later let me down badly. Why’s that happening? Am I just incredibly unlucky, or is there something I’m doing wrong?

Why do I always fall in love with men who break my heart?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-24 09:53:54

I seem to have developed a knack for attracting men who, sooner or later, let me down badly. Why’s that happening? Am I just incredibly unlucky, or is there something I’m doing wrong?

How do I leave a man who thinks everything is fine?

By Chris Hart   2026-02-28 10:23:32

My boyfriend and I’ve been living together for years, but I’ve gradually realised that it’s no longer working for me. But how do I tell him?

I've waited for this ring for years, now what?

By Chris Hart   2026-03-03 09:14:51

I’ve just got engaged! I thought it would never happen, so are there any things that my fiancé and I should be discussing now to ensure we have a really happy marriage? 

Is it normal to feel this lonely while married?

By Chris Hart   2026-03-07 10:29:20

I’ve been married for several years now, and gradually things have gone flat. All those nice little things we used to do together no longer happen. Is there something wrong with me? Or him? 

Why does every "good guy" I date eventually feel like a red flag?

By Chris Hart   2026-03-10 11:55:21

I’ve had some serious boyfriends, but each time I gradually grew suspicious of them all. I don’t think it’s because I’m choosing bad guys, so why do I have so much trouble with men?