Ciku Kimani-mwaniki

Dating then was very different from what it is now

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-04-23 11:18:39

Dating was an alien concept to Boomers and Gen Xers. Today, communities that still practice arranged marriages are viewed with feigned disdain.

Are older women sexier? Blame it on consciousness, fitness

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-05-03 08:57:56

Are older women sexier than younger ones? I think the answer to that would be in what you consider to be sexy

Older women sexier? Blame it on consciousness, fitness

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-05-19 11:54:07

Back then, keeping fit was by default. For starters, there was the fat-shaming we did not want to be targets of.

A woman can be single and happy, but society would have us believe otherwise

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-06-06 10:42:41

If a woman declares that she is single and happy by choice, there will be people all around her who will give her speeches about why this is not possible

Teenagers deserve to be treated with dignity

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-07-12 11:23:07

How is it that when it comes to teens and their so-called issues, we concentrate on moaning about their bad attitude but turn a blind eye to how the caregivers respond?

Nothing to hide, let's be open with teenagers

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-07-26 10:24:05

Teenagers are going to be curious, and the things we run away from are more likely to happen than not. Would you not rather be the one to equip them with the truth?

Of ageing and the great power of self-realisation

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-08-16 10:20:00

Life does begin at forty, but not physically - that comes later. It is when you realise that you have lived a life not for yourself but for society

Divorce does not mean hating your ex

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-09-05 10:01:05

If it is not working, happily move on. If the shoe no longer fits, get another shoe instead of folding your toes so that they can fit you

Three ways you can secure love

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-09-06 09:56:43

In whatever way you try to find a partner, there are risks involved. Choose your way wisely, because it is a jungle out here

Is black tax an obligation or honour?

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-09-12 11:08:54

Black tax is one of the reasons we care for our old, as opposed to bundling them together in old people’s homes where they only get to see family for a couple of hours a month if they are lucky

Divorce should not mean hating your ex

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-10-04 09:33:46

When you get divorced, remaining friends is not so hard. Understand that falling out of love just means you no longer want to be intimate with them is key

Three ways you can find love

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-10-31 09:14:35

Whichever way you choose to find a partner, it is clear that you will have to take risks. Choose your path wisely, because it is a jungle out here

Who will bury you? When burials are a must-go

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-11-27 09:07:29

The world we live in today, the one of chasing the shilling and constant rat race, dictates that family and friends no longer meet as often as they used to.

Men are what their testosterones say they are

By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki   2024-12-03 15:53:27

It took me years to forgive him and when I think about it hard, I doubt I ever forgave him.