It’s a business relationship that I compare to one of a sponsor and the sponsored youngling.
The girls I used to play kati have transformed into women wearing hideous blue uniforms for various churches' women’s groups.
If an audacious villager decides to have an invite-only wedding, we ignore that and invite ourselves shamelessly.
When I fell pregnant with my second daughter, it was an opportunity to once again pretend that my weight was just pregnant weight. But it was not.
Marriage and home are strangely synonymous. If it is a woman’s job to take care of the home, by default, the marriage is her responsibility and if it fails, it is her fault.
I knew things were getting out of hand when I saw a local celebrity charging guests to attend such a party. Why, I asked myself, could those guests not wait a couple of months to find out?
Our young people today have taken pride in carrying around wobbly behinds. You cannot body-shame them and get away with it. Good!
I guess the answer would be in what you consider sexy but you can also blame it on consciousness and fitness
There is nothing you can do about the gown hire being too expensive, but you could wear the hat, or even the gown, for a whole week as you let everyone know that you put in the work.
Whatever your destination is in life, know your pace, and remember it is okay to turn back
When you are a late developer, you're never in a rush unless it is a matter of life and death, and you are unbothered by what other people achieve, or how fast they achieve it.
Obviously, success is relative. Even those we deem successful are chasing their own versions of success. Chasing rainbows.
In the same bad economy, new millionaires are rolled out every day. There will be putting up palatial homes at the same time your one-room landlord is threatening to kick you out for rent arrears.
Even when you are making all these resolutions, you know the chances of not fulfilling them are extremely high because they are sponsored by an empty bank account.
Village and city people get the same education, they get the same world exposure through the internet, and the days of promising village girls a trip to the city so they could soften up, are over!
Dating was an alien concept to Boomers and Gen Xers. Today, communities that still practice arranged marriages are viewed with feigned disdain.
Are older women sexier than younger ones? I think the answer to that would be in what you consider to be sexy
Back then, keeping fit was by default. For starters, there was the fat-shaming we did not want to be targets of.